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Looking back over my childhood I can remember numerous things I perceived were said or done “to me”. While they seemed trivial and insignificant to the other person(s) involved, they played major roles in my life decisions and direction because of their impact on me at the time.

How many of you have had childhood happenings that impacted your life? Think about it. 


Is your privacy extremely important to you?  Do you live in or work in an environment where your boundaries are often ignored or crossed? Does the thought of someone reading your diary or journal terrify you?  Read more...



From the moment we came out of the womb if not earlier we learned how to become fearful. Even the most fearless of us were soon convinced NOT to trust our own instincts over that of parents, teachers or bosses.


Then We started to succeed 




Have you every developed a headache or upset stomach after being in a negative or stressful situation? Or suddenly found yourself making mistakes, forgetting things or going way out of your way when driving after someone or something has frustrated you? Do you have negative people or situations in your life?  Read more...


To See or NOT to See


“Empowerment's in Trusting… God doesn't give you the people you want... God gives you the people you NEED... To help you, to hurt you, to leave you, to love you... and to make you into the person you were meant to be.” (Taken from one of the many emails I receive)


Have you ever noticed that whether it is in your immediate circle of friends, at work or just going through life’s everyday events you tend to find yourself attracting the same types of people into your life?



Who Runs YOUR Life, Your Ego or Your Soul?


"When God takes something from your grasp, It is not to punish you,
it is merely opening your hands to receive something better."
'The will of God will never take you
where the Grace of God will not protect you.'


Have you ever noticed that our Ego often chooses to perceive this differently? How?

By blaming and playing the victim whenever we don't get what we ask for or things don't go our way.

We did everything we thought would make it happen according to the rules of The Law of Attraction and it still didn't happen. We still didn't get what we wanted. We still didn't find that home or relationship; win that money or that car.

What do we usually do?



New Year; New YOU!


I LOVE the beginning of a New Year!


For me, there is something exciting about having a fresh start!


Every January I feel an urgency to clear up, complete or delete clutter I attracted or created during the past year. I have even ended most of my relationships by the end of November. Seem Strange? Not really. On reflection I understand that because one of my most significant relationships  Read more...




Many recent studies say that chocolate, especially dark chocolate, is good for you. I agree.


However in the past I was a chocoholic to the degree that I used my credit card to purchase it on the way home from work. Of course, I couldn't just buy one thing so I began running up debt by adding things I didn't really need just to justify the purchase of the real fix.


Now when I say I was a chocoholic, understand how extreme my addiction was.  Read More...


Have You Had Your  “B”s Today?


   As I “mature” I liken myself to the Cardinal (the bird that is).

There are times I wish to be out there, rather flamboyantly, and times when I would rather be home nesting (Playing hooky).

    Women Who Run with Wolves (Clarissa Pinkola Estés) explains the essential need for a women to have downtime to be creative as, “A women must rest now, rock now, regain her focus. She must become younger, recover her energy… A creative woman has to rest now and return to her intense work later.”

    Unfortunately as women we often subconsciously feel



 For years my life was filled with negative drama thriving on the attention it brought me. Everyone around me would jump right in to try to help me solve my dilemma of the day. It seemed I couldn’t make one decision in my life without getting feedback from every person I came into contact with. Being a hairstylist, then teacher gave me a large pool of people to emote to.


As I stepped onto the path of self awareness I began to realize I was as Dramaholic!  Read more...


Go Ahead, Cry!


When was the last time you had a GOOD cry? Not one of those almost cries that you stuff back down to join all the other almost cries you have had over the long haul. I am talking about a cry you let loose and allow to literally flow until the last drop.


What is stopping you?  Is it the fact that you feel the urge at the most inopportune times?  Read more...



Cleaning, Clearing, Ha Ha Ha!


My spring cleaning came after the first day of summer this year. While starting was something I dreaded I finally had the time, opportunity and energy aligned to clear, clean and re-organize one weekend. While unable to go through my whole home, inside and out, the 75% I did get to left me feeling…LIGHTER, both physically and emotionally.


To help myself get into the mood and keep the momentum going I always try to make it fun. You can too! How you ask? Read more...



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